Father’s Way

Today, Colby is sharing His thoughts on seeking the Father’s Way while waiting to become a dad.

The world and our culture tell subtle lies that imprison us, but God’s truths, spoken and recorded in the Bible, offer us freedom and true life.

“Mom price-index” articles, typically rehashed as a news story every Mother’s Day, attempt to put a monetized value on the role. “Look how appreciated and valued you are!” With a quick search, I was able to find the male counterpart articles that add up men’s landscaping, security, waste management, plumbing, and mechanic dollar value. The well-meaning gesture seems to border on a back-handed, “see, you ARE important.”

The things that we do (or don’t do) don’t determine our value. All men and women are equally valuable because they are created in God’s image. When we rejected God and turned away from him, he sent his son Jesus to die in our place for that sin, so that we could be redeemed and restored to a relationship with him. God values and loves us that much.

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. – Genesis‬ ‭1‬:‭27‬

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” – John‬ ‭3‬:‭16-17‬

Happy Father’s Day to all the men who have an unexpected wait until their time to enter fatherhood. Know that you are valued by God. Look to Him for your strength in this time, and be strong and compassionate for your wife.

People’s character is revealed when they don’t get things their way, right when they want them. Be content and joyful in all the good things that you ARE blessed with right now, but passionately and urgently seek God with your wife for the children you desire. Ensure that He is always the greatest desire of your heart. Seek His way and His will.

I will be praying for all those who read this post or blog, that many will know the amazing love of our Father in heaven, and that he will bless us with the pregnancies and children we seek! – Colby

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  • Heather
    Posted at 08:47h, 19 June Reply

    Beautiful tribute to all the dads out there! I am incredibly thankful for my husband who does such a wonderful job being a father to our three little ones. It is amazing to see his patience every day.

  • Caitlyn
    Posted at 09:40h, 19 June Reply

    loved this post!!

  • Rebecca Jo
    Posted at 10:04h, 19 June Reply

    You are so thoughtful on your posts… love this & the encouragement to dads & will-be-dads 🙂

  • Romina @ dietyogaenergy
    Posted at 10:16h, 19 June Reply

    Advanced Happy Fathers day! This was a sweet post.

  • Kim Adams Morgan
    Posted at 10:31h, 19 June Reply

    Love your posts, Colby. Say Happy Birthday to the wife for me.

  • Rosemond Cates
    Posted at 10:48h, 19 June Reply

    Such a sweet tribute! I always love your posts and the verses you choose to illustrate your point!


  • Biana @Blovedboston
    Posted at 10:48h, 19 June Reply

    Beautifully said!! Hope you have a wonderful weekend! xo, Biana –BlovedBoston

  • Marie
    Posted at 12:17h, 19 June Reply

    so thankful for the fathers love

  • Andrea
    Posted at 13:28h, 19 June Reply

    God has the perfect plan for everybody – including dads 😀

  • Rene D
    Posted at 15:49h, 19 June Reply

    Blessings to you and your hubby on this great adventure to parenthood. My “daddy” is technically a step-dad but as God would have it – He IS my daddy. And I am a daddy’s girl. He brought us together when I was 11 and I am so blessed. God has a plan for all of us – dad’s, kids, steps ….. Thanks for sharing 🙂

  • Amanda
    Posted at 16:30h, 19 June Reply

    Thank you both for this blog post. I read it aloud to my husband as we deal with another “no” month. Your prayers are appreciated as we go through this weekend. We are praying for you both as well.

  • Kelli {A Deeper Joy}
    Posted at 16:52h, 19 June Reply

    So awesome! Thanks for sharing, Colby!

  • Cheryl Smith
    Posted at 08:01h, 20 June Reply

    I trust the dear Lord that your miracle comes to you soon! Praying for you both. 🙂

  • Sheryl
    Posted at 10:26h, 21 June Reply

    This was beautiful!!!

  • Lisa
    Posted at 11:00h, 21 June Reply

    Thanks for this, Colby!

  • Marilyn S
    Posted at 19:11h, 21 June Reply

    Thanks, for sharing!

  • Jennifer DeFrates/Heaven Not Harvard
    Posted at 21:30h, 21 June Reply

    Waiting for God’s timing isn’t always easy, but it is always perfectly right. I had a LONG wait to be a mom. And now I couldn’t imagine any other outcome for my life. She is the perfect child to bring me closer to God, bring out the best in me and the things that need to be refined. Your husband (and you) are being heard. I don’t know what your outcome will be, but I was Hannah, pouring out my heart and I will pray for your family.

  • Melanie
    Posted at 04:16h, 22 June Reply

    Wonderfully said.

  • Amanda
    Posted at 09:47h, 22 June Reply

    People’s character is revealed when they don’t get things their way, right when they want them. <— that definitely convicted me! I can be very impatient. Thanks for sharing, and I will be praying that you can celebrate Father's Day with your own little one soon!

  • Marissa
    Posted at 13:34h, 22 June Reply

    Well said! Every one has value that is immeasurable in our Father’s Eyes. Love that you took the time to share your heart on Father’s Day.


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  • Kim
    Posted at 13:47h, 22 June Reply

    Funny how God makes us wait so we can develop patience and reliance on him. The only way to get there is to go through it. Wonderful post pointing men in the right direction no matter where they are at as they walk through this life.

  • Jenna
    Posted at 16:09h, 22 June Reply

    Great words, Colby! It is interesting to hear your perspective. Before my husband and I even began trying to have children, some people in our family unfortunately made us feel as though our worth lies in the number of children we have. And since we don’t have any yet, we have no worth. It is really hurtful, but knowing that God created us in His image is such a comfort and brings peace. Thanks for sharing!

  • Chari
    Posted at 13:30h, 23 June Reply

    Yes, we are all valuable in God’s sight! God bless!

  • Sarah
    Posted at 02:21h, 25 June Reply

    Thank you for such a beautiful perspective Colby! It was great to read- always praying for you and Caroline!

  • Finley
    Posted at 06:55h, 28 June Reply

    this was awesome! so well said and always pointing back to the ultimate father!

  • patricia umeh
    Posted at 05:24h, 29 June Reply

    thanks and Shalom.God makes all things beautiful in His time Amen.

  • Laura @ Making Baby Provence
    Posted at 13:20h, 30 June Reply

    I love when the husbands share. Thank you for writing this, Colby!

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